The light of the Lover.

I believe , by now, you are accustomed to the hormonal and neurological changes that comes at the sight of a light of a lover, either you be male or female. The light you can not see, you can not possess, and as a matter of fact, one's love relationship is a product of one's self perspective. The light of a lover, is defined as the attraction, impulse and consult that moves the soul to communicate to the body about what the heart is saying, which is to say, your reacts in many amazing , spell bound moments.

It's as true as it's popularly quoted " Love is blind, mysterious, deceptive and all that ", but all these ttributes given of men to love is of individual or collecive personas definition and experience altogether. The light of a lover is as I refer to it as, when a woman (or a man), captures the focus of the opposite gender. It's one that time disappears in it.

I choose to use today's blog to elaborate some definite and consistent truths about the light of a lover(who to live up your ecstatic life with

First of all, you must know as a human, who is a sexually active organism, your desire to mix,share and connect with the opposite sex, is a natural yearning and mechanism, that your whole human biological makeup is programmed for.
So this short understanding, can propel you towards, how you discipline or manage your libido or you loose yourself in it and manifest some uncontrolabke sexuality. The light of a lover, is one power that stays on your heart and keeps you from darkness(going into the path of sexual indiscipline), and that you can channel your sexuality into a paradise joining and/or attachment to the one you can spend eternity with.

Secondly, one light(understanding), you get from the light of a lover(and note very well, I said lover and not lovers); is one that settles your untamable sexual fantasy of running wild on the vehicle of your libido and messing up yourself and the victims of your fantasies.
By this introduction, what I want to say is, the youthful ecstasy and fantasy to be coiled with one soul mate and perfect Mr Right or Mrs. Right, is by the stop post of encountering a light of a lover, which moves your mind,body and soul wholly, as when you can read his or her maturity out loud in behavior (actions) and not just words and in communications,which are as genuine and fundamental as true love stands for.
 Take this scroll and meditate on it, for you to spot that Mr or Mrs Right (That light of the lover), I talk about. These are the qualities and characters;

1.Soul connection, able to see deep within you, your weakness and strength alike, I mean every true lover will seek to know the weakness and strength of his or her partner, so as to be able to relate to it.

2.Attitude of focus, of which , a light from a lover, you get stunned at, is always by one with focus and vision and not game lovers and fun troller.

3.Beauty in physics and character, language or communication, I believe this is the first of the characteristics of the lover you would want to start researching on as a prospectors marriage candidate.

4.Ending point, the one truth from the lover you are so glued to, is his or her persona, ability and style to spot you, to engage you, makes you get out of your fantasies to reality. This is also a foremost criteria for, diagnosing the true light of your life. The natural skill of he or she to drag you out of your shields, i.e, the oura to keep you you; no matter ho messy or clean you are deep inside.
Note_True Love is a process and not a timely momentary even or short interest into each other, it has it's wings fly across time, and only birds to fly above time can truly be with it (love).

Thank you for reading this post; please help get this post get to us many that will benefit them, take this as a seed sowing, into creating a generation with right mindset towards love,sex and courtship/marriage.