The Secrets.
Having been nurtured in a very good Ghanaian home and having learnt from relationship issues in my country and also in the world at large, I have learnt that many have lost the secrets to a successful courship or dating process and so many never make it, to the grand finale and thereby never get to enjoy the full and ultimate reward, which is marriage. And if one of such unsurveyed relationships ends into a marriage, it never last, some no sooner and some never till the married oath of separation, which is, "until death draw us apart" is fulfilled. And so I have made it my interest, to help you escape broken hearts and break ups and if it comes about that, unfortunately, you have already experience one, help you deal with that, and equip you with the right knowledge and give you the Godly counsel to make it work in your next relationship(be either a date or courtship). You must learn these secrets before getting into a relationship and if you are already in one and youhave not explored and applied these secrets in your love life, then I am sorry, but only to give you an heavy heart and truthful advise, leave that person and relationship right now(because it will surely fall apart and that is not a promise but a "clear possibility and reality).
These are some secrets you must know of, before ever considering any young man or young woman.
1.Don't give your heart to guy or lady who you have not studied. And what I mean by this is that, you have no reason and evidence of love, to give your precious heart to a stranger ( that's a person you can't prove of knowing everything about him or her).
2.First you guys should just be friends Never rush into a relationship. Study him or her, as you guys relate as just good friends and so, with that openness and closeness, scan and understand her soul ( that is her thoughts and ideas) and also Hus or her views towards life and then, you guys come make it as young couples who are preparing to get married. Learn to find out whether he or she is the life mate you need and he or she can assist you fulfill your lives purpose and destiny.
3.Pray, look into your heart and ask yourself these questions. Asking of questions like, whether the guy or lady I'm thinking of dating or courting is going to help me with my vision or purpose (destiny), is needful and important to be answered and answered sincerely. And also, if you are ready for a serious and commited relationship , and if you you answer it as a yes, then narrow it, to if you are , ready for that particular guy or lady. Ask, if he or she , is going to promote or push you towards your life's goal and dream or will rather will pull you back. The reason why you have to draw out those answers ftom your love mate, partner or boloved is, to get yourself psyched about who you are with, what you you are looking for,what your goals and purpose for the relationship are and if your life will be ok with you guys being together, do not ignore or underestimate these important questions and end up, asking for the hand of a wrong person in marriage , who will destroy you and crample down every tower of the future you have dremed about.
Even though, I do not intend to give a list of things to do, in thereby giving some kind of formulas or rules to follow, because that is not the idea of this post, but rather tto get you to know the secrets of and to a successful dating or courtship relationship, which will end up you up in marriage and not misery.
I am 21years of age, and I am already with my dear one Terbrah, as I already did reveal in my first post. I perfectly know and understand what I am saying , and I assure you that , despite what you might be going through and what you don't understand about the mystery of love and it's role and significance it plays in keeping a relationship or marriage, know that it's only God who is the foundation for a successful young love or relationship and not what you might have learnt or heard.
I will also suggest you read books, the right and Godly books that deal with this issue of choosing a right love mate or partner, and thereby getting yourself informed with the secrets or informations to arrive at your dream love life and partner. The above points shared are all relatioship secrects you have to know before any further step or stay in a young relationship. And so with these few knowledge already shared, go out to get books and resources( be either from the internet or physical interactions with humans ),get informed about everything to do with relationships , I will greatly advise you to develop this habit of reading and if you have it already, do well to keep it up, and make it a constant fun, in getting your knowlede bank filled, full and charged, and surely with the right and truthful ( especially with ones that interests and addresses your situation at hand ).
Secrets are always revealed to the people you trust and so I was also trusted with these secrets from God, scriptures and real life relationships around me and most especially including my own love life with Terbrah.
As a male, you should know and have tested these secrets in your relationship, if not, then try it out. It's the reality of all successful marriages or relationships. They are as follows;
1.Know your lady or beloved more than, she even know herself ( and with this I mean to say get informed from herself and from good relationship books, everything about females in relationships).
2.Get to know yourself,which is to say don't let your woman or lady take you out from your vision or personal goals . You should love a girl or woman, who believes in you and fully supports you in your lives dreams and goals.
3.Let your vision for yourself, when you were single, drive you still when you are in a relationship and not to be droped out or discarded, to take up a lady with a lavish lifestyle and also very materialistic. If you are having a love mate like that, who seriously has no vision for herself but rather only desire and demand for super expensive clothes, shoes, beauty products and partying at night clubs and other insignificant things, even though as a good and responsible partner, it's courteous you show care and love, please don't let be to the extent of spending on her lust and obsessions. Know that materialisms and things do not fulfill her destiny and neither her dreams or future.
4.Get a philosophy or vision to pursue. Your purpose in life is more important than your your love life or relationship with anyone. Be yourself, follow God's destiny design and don't make mistakes with your choices and plans for yourself and the future, especially by compromising it for a lady.
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