The Waiting Process Of Relationship
The waiting process is the stage of a relationship, you have to be desisting from all flesh related tests(especially sex) till marriage in short. It also can also mean generally as, the moments or times spent together with your lover between the time when the dating relationship began and the time you get married.
I see this stage of a relationship, the decider of how the love story will end, whether beautifully as it started or horribly as 70- 90% of young or better still teen lovers relationship ended. It's one I am very much stuck to it's lectures, of so many stages you have to pass in this waiting stage, and then analyze whether your love is as divine as you saw it on proposing to your partner. You see the beginning stage of a relationship, what brought you guys to agree on a date is a chief decider on how we can pass the waiting season, till we marry.
I believe the most generous and genuine act of love in a young relationship and a relationship which the knot has yet not been tied is waiting and waiting in love and not pretense or fear. It has really revealed my heart (please, the book by which I get much of knowledge on this subject is,"Golden Heart For Golden Relationship "), and tested me of love for my mate or partner. Waiting is usually felt when you are both not physically with each other, and this context of definition also apply to married couples. I am literally feeling the waiting test and reality, it's a pressure or refiner, as to how "ook" you come out of it, and finally reunite, whether in marriage or dating.
Your heart is going to reveal your motives for the relationship in this dating stage, seeing, there is less physical presence, intimacy, communication and so many things that you used to enjoy when you were both physically close or better still and yet not married. Whether your test will be your waiting on sex or on some higher or advance decisions you both want to take together, or anything that takes an extra and fullness of yourself to commit to.
There are so many things you and your lover could wait on or better still put on wait in a dating relationship and it has to be one you know you are going to regret later on , if you don't both get married or not sure whether your love will last forever. You still will meet the waiting stage, and knowing that, it can not t only mean the time between dating and marriage, but even have to overcome it any time it poops up or there is a need for it.
Waiting in dating or a young love relationship can serve for many purposes, and I will try and go this through the major training fields you can end up into in this stage or stages of your love life.
1_You truly see the Reality and the choice or decision of having an affair or relationship with your partner. Let's not run away from the truth or reality either, it has the bearing of everything we do in life and it's outcome. You see love is blind they say, and if it's a true saying , so then will it's dating connection be also, you really will not see your seriousness and vitality of a decision to be in relationship with your lover or date , until you are separated from the pending illusion of lilies and roses romantic relationship. It's a real and critical decider in what and who you getting yourself into or with respectively. You have the privacy of time to think about your relationship genuinely and how you consider it to be, whether deserving, reserving or desisting.
2_It gives a training field for rehearsal and deepening of love. I think this you will understand.
3.It shapes and gives a clear shape of your relationship and how it's going to end, seeing this stage test you on your heart and intention in a relationship.
4Lastly, I will say, it brings you guys together in way that it would never have had happened if you have not been in a waiting season, and it's training and rehearsal or analyzing season, makes you get a refined golden heart in and for the relationship, no more seeing your partner as a sexual or pleasure mate or toy, and also taking out the romance of the bed from your relationship(as you are still not married); you will still be in love with him or her , as you have and always been.
I see this stage of a relationship, the decider of how the love story will end, whether beautifully as it started or horribly as 70- 90% of young or better still teen lovers relationship ended. It's one I am very much stuck to it's lectures, of so many stages you have to pass in this waiting stage, and then analyze whether your love is as divine as you saw it on proposing to your partner. You see the beginning stage of a relationship, what brought you guys to agree on a date is a chief decider on how we can pass the waiting season, till we marry.
I believe the most generous and genuine act of love in a young relationship and a relationship which the knot has yet not been tied is waiting and waiting in love and not pretense or fear. It has really revealed my heart (please, the book by which I get much of knowledge on this subject is,"Golden Heart For Golden Relationship "), and tested me of love for my mate or partner. Waiting is usually felt when you are both not physically with each other, and this context of definition also apply to married couples. I am literally feeling the waiting test and reality, it's a pressure or refiner, as to how "ook" you come out of it, and finally reunite, whether in marriage or dating.
Your heart is going to reveal your motives for the relationship in this dating stage, seeing, there is less physical presence, intimacy, communication and so many things that you used to enjoy when you were both physically close or better still and yet not married. Whether your test will be your waiting on sex or on some higher or advance decisions you both want to take together, or anything that takes an extra and fullness of yourself to commit to.
There are so many things you and your lover could wait on or better still put on wait in a dating relationship and it has to be one you know you are going to regret later on , if you don't both get married or not sure whether your love will last forever. You still will meet the waiting stage, and knowing that, it can not t only mean the time between dating and marriage, but even have to overcome it any time it poops up or there is a need for it.
Waiting in dating or a young love relationship can serve for many purposes, and I will try and go this through the major training fields you can end up into in this stage or stages of your love life.
1_You truly see the Reality and the choice or decision of having an affair or relationship with your partner. Let's not run away from the truth or reality either, it has the bearing of everything we do in life and it's outcome. You see love is blind they say, and if it's a true saying , so then will it's dating connection be also, you really will not see your seriousness and vitality of a decision to be in relationship with your lover or date , until you are separated from the pending illusion of lilies and roses romantic relationship. It's a real and critical decider in what and who you getting yourself into or with respectively. You have the privacy of time to think about your relationship genuinely and how you consider it to be, whether deserving, reserving or desisting.
2_It gives a training field for rehearsal and deepening of love. I think this you will understand.
3.It shapes and gives a clear shape of your relationship and how it's going to end, seeing this stage test you on your heart and intention in a relationship.
4Lastly, I will say, it brings you guys together in way that it would never have had happened if you have not been in a waiting season, and it's training and rehearsal or analyzing season, makes you get a refined golden heart in and for the relationship, no more seeing your partner as a sexual or pleasure mate or toy, and also taking out the romance of the bed from your relationship(as you are still not married); you will still be in love with him or her , as you have and always been.
Don't let your vision be ruined by a relationship, men on the highway of purpose are not distracted by anything except to reach their goal and complete their race, that race he was called to run. It's a high thing to wait in the waiting season of a relationship, but it will never be fruitful and blessed if you don't wait, because you turn to see the immediatel time favorable, and of course to yourself but not the future and destiny you are both building together as a reckoning force to please the Lord.
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