What Your Mum Never Told You About Dad.
Does beauty seem to answer the question of choosing a life long and loving partner, may be yes it does , but surely only onto the young and immatured, and so the outcome of their choices in chosing the woman or man to date. You might not know this side of love where is not always beauty that keeps you bounded, because love edures and forgives(says 1Corinthiams 13), which implies that, there is going to be somethings in our love life, that we have to endure(sacrifice for) and also forgive(or let go). The lesson your mum never taught you about, concerning her marriage with your dad, is the secret to keping your man and therefore your love relationship with your beloved. Haa, it is not the lesson your dad taught you about your mum, because women are the ones who make a marriage and is their influence that keeps a man or makes them loose a man. Literally to say, married men,are the puppets of their wives. It's a shocking revelation right, you can go around and ask all married men who love their wives about it or rather more evidently, check the Genesis 2 story.
Don't get confused over here, if a woman wants to save her marriage she will and if she does not and even the man does, it will still fail or fall. The lessons both your dad and mum have learnt about love, sex and relationship,are ones that you will be curious to know, as a young lover. Please remember, your comments and contributions in sharing this blog posts are very important and necessary to us and more importantly to the general public, always remember Hosea 4: 12, which says; "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge:...", help save our youth with true knowledge.
I have highly learnt and studied married couples around me, and the lessons I have learnt from them, are immensely astonishing and positively impactful. (Hmmm), Let's move to the main objective, " What Your Mum Never Told You About Dad'.
Love do start where there is no snow but cold.
Love begins at the centre of your heart, and takes over the mind and then finally the whole body. In love you sacrifice everything you're for the one you truly love. Love will pay for your sins, when you have not a penny to give out for your freedom. Love is that generous and not only just erotic.
Married couples all over the world, who have stayed faithful to their marital homes, and had gotten the full gain of marriage, made it their choices to be happy with their husbands no matter what. "What keeps marriage, more than love". Marriage is like a deep sea, it has many amazing things (creatures) to find at the buttom as you swim deeper and closer. And so understand now, right now, that what makes your mum and dad's marriage work or not to work is the woman's choice, since I have made you already understand, that is a woman who decides to whether keep a man or let him go, when they are finally married.
A man can never get a divorce unless, the woman says yes first to the marriages' end, but if a woman want's a divource it will be given, whether the man gives his consent or not. The man would not love to raise any form of restriction when the wife seeks for a divorce, because, the marriage would have already broken up in the home( or their marital love life) and so it's's not a judiciary divorce paper signings, that could make him reluntant or stobburn to let her go. The role of the woman is to be the one who makes or unamake a marriage, and the man's role, to be the heart of the marriage , in that if the marriage will stand or fall is the man's reaction towards the builder of the marriage which is the wife.
Your mum might have married your dad because of love, love fir his features, money, care, and other good and likable qualities, but she is not going still be with your dad because of love for his goid looks or handsomeness, but because of pure and true love which involves, humility, obedience, patience, care and all ggod virtues to keep the marriage and most importantly your dad, so we as young lovers are to learn what keeps long married couples together, and you can do that by reading and childish curiosity interaction with marriages like how you want yours to be. Marriage is not for money, fame, comfort from working or any trivial and insignificant reasons but rather for the larger and most significant reasons, which are base on nothing like money, beauty, glamour or enjoyment alone but, respect, love, dignity, loyalty and finally family(the continuity of your kind, both in natural character and also spiritual character). Strive as married couples to cultivate each other as a farmer and not to be served with an already perfect and easy marriage or life like a drug dealer.
What your mum never told you about your dad, is that love is what makes her to be with your dad, unconditional love of course, and all other virtues of a virtuous woman, like hardwork, care for the family, keeping of a condusive and peaceful home(please check Proverbs 31,for the whole definition of who is a virtuous woman). Your husband's life is in your hands, literally, just as your life is in that of God's, because just as God treats us with love understandable, so be towards your man or husband. Be a pillow for him, be each other's best friend, talk of anything at all that bothers you, even if it is snoring or any other thing that you might see as unimportant or trivial. Love adores, so adore each other, Love consecrates or saves, so be each others savior. Be the best of a brother or sister to each other, because love grows, don't let go be bored of each others consistent unliked personality, because if it's real love, you will bring him or her out of that life. Your marriage is gold , so is your love life with your beloved(either boyfriend or girl friend), so esteem with all your love and care, it is your vision , which means what you want, that keeps a marrige. Make sure what you seek or reason for a love life or relationship is one that is worth loving your partner for, and forever and unconditionally.
Thank you for reading , your comments are helpful in so many ways for the furtherment of this blog and it's posts. Love you, and let love lead you in all that you do or say.
Don't get confused over here, if a woman wants to save her marriage she will and if she does not and even the man does, it will still fail or fall. The lessons both your dad and mum have learnt about love, sex and relationship,are ones that you will be curious to know, as a young lover. Please remember, your comments and contributions in sharing this blog posts are very important and necessary to us and more importantly to the general public, always remember Hosea 4: 12, which says; "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge:...", help save our youth with true knowledge.
I have highly learnt and studied married couples around me, and the lessons I have learnt from them, are immensely astonishing and positively impactful. (Hmmm), Let's move to the main objective, " What Your Mum Never Told You About Dad'.
Love do start where there is no snow but cold.
Love begins at the centre of your heart, and takes over the mind and then finally the whole body. In love you sacrifice everything you're for the one you truly love. Love will pay for your sins, when you have not a penny to give out for your freedom. Love is that generous and not only just erotic.
Married couples all over the world, who have stayed faithful to their marital homes, and had gotten the full gain of marriage, made it their choices to be happy with their husbands no matter what. "What keeps marriage, more than love". Marriage is like a deep sea, it has many amazing things (creatures) to find at the buttom as you swim deeper and closer. And so understand now, right now, that what makes your mum and dad's marriage work or not to work is the woman's choice, since I have made you already understand, that is a woman who decides to whether keep a man or let him go, when they are finally married.
A man can never get a divorce unless, the woman says yes first to the marriages' end, but if a woman want's a divource it will be given, whether the man gives his consent or not. The man would not love to raise any form of restriction when the wife seeks for a divorce, because, the marriage would have already broken up in the home( or their marital love life) and so it's's not a judiciary divorce paper signings, that could make him reluntant or stobburn to let her go. The role of the woman is to be the one who makes or unamake a marriage, and the man's role, to be the heart of the marriage , in that if the marriage will stand or fall is the man's reaction towards the builder of the marriage which is the wife.
Your mum might have married your dad because of love, love fir his features, money, care, and other good and likable qualities, but she is not going still be with your dad because of love for his goid looks or handsomeness, but because of pure and true love which involves, humility, obedience, patience, care and all ggod virtues to keep the marriage and most importantly your dad, so we as young lovers are to learn what keeps long married couples together, and you can do that by reading and childish curiosity interaction with marriages like how you want yours to be. Marriage is not for money, fame, comfort from working or any trivial and insignificant reasons but rather for the larger and most significant reasons, which are base on nothing like money, beauty, glamour or enjoyment alone but, respect, love, dignity, loyalty and finally family(the continuity of your kind, both in natural character and also spiritual character). Strive as married couples to cultivate each other as a farmer and not to be served with an already perfect and easy marriage or life like a drug dealer.
What your mum never told you about your dad, is that love is what makes her to be with your dad, unconditional love of course, and all other virtues of a virtuous woman, like hardwork, care for the family, keeping of a condusive and peaceful home(please check Proverbs 31,for the whole definition of who is a virtuous woman). Your husband's life is in your hands, literally, just as your life is in that of God's, because just as God treats us with love understandable, so be towards your man or husband. Be a pillow for him, be each other's best friend, talk of anything at all that bothers you, even if it is snoring or any other thing that you might see as unimportant or trivial. Love adores, so adore each other, Love consecrates or saves, so be each others savior. Be the best of a brother or sister to each other, because love grows, don't let go be bored of each others consistent unliked personality, because if it's real love, you will bring him or her out of that life. Your marriage is gold , so is your love life with your beloved(either boyfriend or girl friend), so esteem with all your love and care, it is your vision , which means what you want, that keeps a marrige. Make sure what you seek or reason for a love life or relationship is one that is worth loving your partner for, and forever and unconditionally.
Thank you for reading , your comments are helpful in so many ways for the furtherment of this blog and it's posts. Love you, and let love lead you in all that you do or say.
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