It's Sex Sweet Or Deadly As Young Couples?. The Sex Dilemma.

Most guys (or young men), have cultivated a modern mindset of sex and the role it does play in their relationship, whether it be a date or courtship, which has resulted in the infamous 'Sex Dilemma ' topic. This mindset they possess , is not fully filled with the truths they have to know, and so they abuse this gift, and later do regret it. Sex is sweet , when it is your entitlement and you have nothing to be shy of or hide( and that's when, you are one flesh as husband and wife), but if it is not , you will forever regret that immature action you took, and it will become  a stumbling block to deal with , in your later years in marriage.If you can not keep yourself till marriage, and therefore for your husband, then you can never  know the 'Glorious Sweetness' sex does play in a relationship. The knowledge you do not possess, is an ignorance you will pay dearly for. So please, seek and acquire knowledge, it will not , take anything away from you but rather add many joys unto you.

Your level of freedom , is directly traceable to your level of knowledge.
I am a youth, and have always been around young people, and is more normal for me now,  as I am in the university. I have heard alot of sad things that has made me to be careful, with what I do with my beloved (Terbrah) . Now that , I am young, and have nothing, to build a home for my woman and kids,(lol), I am even not thinking about a possiblity like, getting a woman or girl pregnant, and so I won't risk anything, close, to sexual interaction, especially with my beautiful Terb. I want a life of peace , prosperity and goodness , for my future wife and children. So I say a big no to sex before marriage, if we truely and sincerely love ourselves, we will build ourselves for tomorrow and not today. True love waits, it will not rush but prepare, it will not take away but rather add up....your virginity is precious not only to God but to your future husband or wife.

The Sex dilemma, is a Shock and Scare to both Societies and States (Countries). The sex dilemma or problem is not the problem but the knowledge the people lack that has brought about all immoral sexual relations in our societies and states today, not yo of the rate of teenage pregnancy and the number of virgins in the world today (lol), we are surely losing beauty in it's true essence of virginity and chasing after make ups and fake beauty of prostitutes. You are got to forgive yourself, if you have already lost it to a person you don't have as your husband or wife, I do not intend to condemn anyone, neither can I, I know that we are all sorry and didn't really want that to happen. So I know you regret it, and don't want to get into anything like that again. Just know God loves you and you are His best Gift to humanity, so precious that He sent His only Begotten Son, our Lord and Savior Christ Jesus , to die for you. Know and understand that, you are forgiven and no one can bring up your past or condemn you, you are enjoying an amazing unmerited favour and love from God ,your Heavenly Father/Dad. Just be strong and continue loving God, and He will make you the Perfect Person he has called you to be to the world.

 To be quick and fast with the things and knowledge you need to have, in order to escape the sex dilemma in your young love and relationship, these are some great truths you can learn and benefit from, and please , if you have any question(s) or add up, you can leave it in the comments label at the end of this blog.

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Understand that sex is good and not evil, is part of human nature and a natural means for procreation or reproduction to continue. Sex is like a machine, a computing machine, in its way of working...you will really not have a benefit from it, if you are not using it to do something right and profitable. (Hope you understand this point).
Now this point is crucial and needful for you to understand, that, sex is not a fun game to just enjoy and not worry about the end results or it's consequence. If you get a lady pregnant, you should know , you have your very seed and progeny(or child), buried in the womb of the lady, and as such you can't ignore the responsibility that comes with it.

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Sex is not there for unmarried couples but rather married couples. Abstain from sexual inter course and anything that may lead to it, like, fore play, smoothing sexual and romantic music or movies.

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Don't allow a guy or lady you are not married to , to behave like a husband or wife unto you, especially, that kind of partner always requesting or rather demanding for sex, because you are his lady or her man. If He has not married you and he or she has not been introduced to your parents as your husband or wife to be, then that part of any kind of intimacy must to be taken out, out of your relationship, and if it continues, don't pray he or she changed, my brother and sister, run, run for your life.

I will stop with the numbering of the points and just clear some bushes and weed from your young love and relationship.
Understanding love in it's deepest essence is crucial to your marital, courtship and dating life. You have no business getting into a relationship, if you have no adequate knowledge about relationships. And what I mean by this is, you are putting your life into trouble and destruction, if you are not ready for a relationship and you rush into it, whether naively and ignorantly or conscious and determined. You have no plans and relationship goals that will sustain your relationship and make it forever fresh, young and enjoying.  There is a book, I will highly recommend for you, both for young couples and married couples(if there is one reading this ). The Book is entitled, Golden Heart for Golden Relationship, by Lawrence Sefam Tamakloe( you can contact me on: 0267147736 ). Thank you. Now let's us continue with our talk.

I have always been talking for the guys, since my beginning posts, so now let me talk for the ladies...

You as a female or woman, you are very important, precious and also priceless, your worth is far more above rubies and worldly materials, than billions of dollars, luxurious stuffs, you are just that precious and priceless, only true love must win and not guys materialism show off's.

Learn to control your man. You have got to let him know , who you are, your worth to be precise and arrongantly. Listen to me , you being with a guy, does not mean, you have stopped thinking rationally and logucally, you are not his puppet or relaxation toy. You got to put your guy to his right place, when it comes to sexual issues and chats or talks. You are not meant to give your priceless self and virginity to a visionless individual and man(guy).
 Unless you want to tell me , you yourself, have no value and you have no dreams and your worth is that cheap, because you have to know , every guy wants to brag and to be proud of his woman or lady. Don't be too cheap to be laid or taken to bed, you are needful to God and your future husband. #Godlyloveandrelationship.

Just don't let yourself so low for any gentleman. He can't make you happy, neither successful, because your happiness and success in life does not depend on them but yourself and your Father above (Jesus Christ), keep your vision sharp, continue pursuing your purpose and don't let down the Barton until you are done with your race, that is, your life's race and purpose. #Beanindepedentwoman.
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